AGE DYSPHORIC DISCIPLINE
MEANS
JO IS STILL YOUNG ENOUGH TO BE SPANKED
Having Age Dysphoria means I am permanently in the mindset of a child, not relating to you as another adult because I am unable and do not see myself from the inside as one but relate instead to you as a child.
I look to you for guidance, support and being disciplined in the way a child of my era did and do note nothing said on this blog applies contemporary children and because of that this section exists
The need for this was around the time it was becoming more and more apparent when it came to my developmental and learning disabilities on top of physical ones, I wasn’t and didn’t look likely to being really ‘adult’, only in the sense of being over 18 by chronological age and possibly sharing the odd mainly adult interest being mentally very much a child with the same needs.
The need for this was around the time it was becoming more and more apparent when it came to my developmental and learning disabilities on top of physical ones, I wasn’t and didn’t look likely to being really ‘adult’, only in the sense of being over 18 by chronological age and possibly sharing the odd mainly adult interest being mentally very much a child with the same needs.
I wrote or more accurately posted a note from my mid teens on my main Blogger blog around the time my folks started to talk a bit about how it was we were to be disciplined as such discussion at all was a rarity and I asked to remain being spanked because it was easier for me to cope, grounding didn’t work as I couldn’t go anywhere without my parents so I was ‘grounded’ anyway and long scoldings and discussions just confuse me.
As explained on a previous post on the woodshed the attempt to remove the child-structures and replace by older teen/adult ones really didn’t work out very well simply because I don’t possess the mental skills to use them so they weren’t appropriate for me.
It wasn’t until much later when I looked into this that this more child-like life, headspace and life-style even had words to describe it and for me it’s that I’m Middle Space, a sub-division of the world of Adult Littles and that for some of us it’s a very real state of mind and place.
The honest answer that question involves something some people find uncomfortable, which is with the mindset of that child of my era rather than a full formed adult is a unqualified YES.
Where adult reasoning and discipline fail with me, the use of time-honoured child-like techniques and spanking works better than anything in getting the message through.
As a Middle I’m happy for trusted adults to treat me this way, finding it comforting and very effect at helping me regulate my own emotions and have better attitudes
I’ve made my peace with being how I am and if I need a quick smack to keep me in line, then that’s fine and frankly I’d rather you did
As explained on a previous post on the woodshed the attempt to remove the child-structures and replace by older teen/adult ones really didn’t work out very well simply because I don’t possess the mental skills to use them so they weren’t appropriate for me.
It wasn’t until much later when I looked into this that this more child-like life, headspace and life-style even had words to describe it and for me it’s that I’m Middle Space, a sub-division of the world of Adult Littles and that for some of us it’s a very real state of mind and place.
The honest answer that question involves something some people find uncomfortable, which is with the mindset of that child of my era rather than a full formed adult is a unqualified YES.
Where adult reasoning and discipline fail with me, the use of time-honoured child-like techniques and spanking works better than anything in getting the message through.
As a Middle I’m happy for trusted adults to treat me this way, finding it comforting and very effect at helping me regulate my own emotions and have better attitudes
Spanking outside of a few instances when I’ve seriously tailspinned with Mom in adult life came in in late 2014 as I was starting to lose what little control I had and am now in the fortunate position that not only does my Caregiver spank me, a good number of trusted Adult friends do, being caring disciplinarians to me.
This has been one of the best things people have done for me because I’m learning more how to control my behaviour, learn more self discipline and becoming more focused.
It was something I was desperate for people to do.
One must respect the cane...and the one who wields the cane.
ReplyDeleteI guess if the stick is used in the right way, respect will come naturally.
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