Of Updates and stuff

This blog just seems to ramble on in time however difficult trying to keep it up to date is with having periods of poor health rather like "Treacle" my second personal computer with an internet connection did even as a back up a better machine that developed issues of its own.

 The other thing of course is those things that "run" your computer seldom stay still so rather like in 2015 my last Windows machine you may be aware of attempts to upgrade you to Windows 11 rather like back then I was being nagged into installing 10.

Just imagine though for a second what if you were rather like that computer, would we, do we even receive a notification to say our brains and logical reasoning are compatible for a forthcoming upgrade with an Upgrade Now option?

Would there be a "roll back" of the software didn't take to the last working version?

For the vast majority of people a few teething human equivalents of driver reinstallations aside it works fairly well even if the work leisure balance isn't as good as could be as "play" is a long term universal need.

For some of us though it doesn't as our hardware doesn't fully take the software with a times a fleeting approximation to what Human 13plus 18th revision when installed can do so we're taken back to the last Restore Point and given the the last updates whenever errors are found to burn into our CPU to keep us running the best such a system can.

That's why this life and how it works is so different.

Disability and getting on

How different people handle changed especially life changing conditions or disabilities has always interested me not least for possessing several and having known a good number of people in a variety of situations who have too.

 

It's often interesting to see how people who on the face of may have similar conditions have made of their lives, how they may differ and how others are quite different although I'd like to stress from the get go I don't feel a 'my disability is worse or better than yours' take is really helpful not least for only you alone know how that affects your life or 'mine is more or less “real” than yours either for the same reason.

 

This being said it is my personal conviction how much you are able to make of your life even though you have disabilities depends very much on not only what opportunities may be available to you (and certainly there can be a lack of them that does our society no great favours) and what our own attitudes toward making the most of our lives can be when they are.

 

This can be more difficult when it comes to dealing with things such as social anxiety which as someone does find things like meeting people or using the telephone difficult I readily understand but unless we are prepared to explore how we may get more confident or better able to communicate, then our opportunities are limited.

 

I think it's that which sometimes is the harder thing because on top everything there is insecurity and a blanket feeling that you are not being understood.

 

There is though I feel a difference between an understanding that says “I am prepared to try to improve on the things I struggle with however hard that might be” and one that simply isn't prepared to even explore what options may be available even if they may not be a “total cure” because you may be limiting yourself from the experiences and opportunities that would enrich your life. You can't advance by staying still.

 

It's hardly fair on the face of it but those of us who have disabilities who in some way or other wish to make the most of our lives in mainstream society need to do as much as can for ourselves to find ways of maximizing it, perhaps in some respects even more than those who don't face the same challenges. 

 

Things just don't come easy to us although I'd also add trying to compensate by excusing other things like 'fitting in' and following the accepted social conventions and rules as everyone else can of itself set you back simply because we have to 'hold our own' and isn't fair to everyone else even though I do recognize that's something I have been guilty of in the past.

Photoshoots

In a number of ways this whole picture sums up what I find lacking in real authenticity in many spanking photoshoots from the notion any girl in school situation would be allowed to have red heels and the whole' look to the camera' pose she has adopted.

New Year Edition 2022

No one can deny 2020 had been tough on everyone cutting through so much everyday stuff, with things cancelled and for some of us parts of our needed lives cancelled as we couldn't meet others.

While in most respects 2021 has been better although concerns around the latest variants ease of transmission are seeing some stricter rule reintroductions to the point people could meet up what that has revealed is just how messed up mentally it left me and in the absence of regular real life as it happens reminders sliding on attitudes and behaviours that impact not just on other people but also on my own functioning.

For me some of that cost has been a lack of focus, the forgetting of social codes, habits and reasonable expectations of being with people and a sharp drop of in my limited personal self discipline that's been an issue with me for as long as I've been old to go to school.

I wrote a few months about the first occasion after the change in regulations issues around getting started on tasks had earned a caning and not just a "playful" one, whose impact lasted over a week. 

That reduced me to feeling deep and genuine sorry for my actions while feeling tearful as the strokes continued to hurt for days not least whenever I sat down.

It was an experience I never felt for long time

In 2022 then in order to put a stop to this which developed through Covid, the gloves must come off and the transmission of the most painful consequences be administered without question. 

Wherever the seriousness may allow for it, I need to be caned firmly to get your point over.

Cane, strap or slipper it must really register with immediate sharp pain, not to cause permanent injury but to burn in as a deterrent.

It must really hurt to the point of tears if is to have the needed impact.

In the end you are just that, a stupid little girl learning her lessons that went array during the pandemic and need to be retaught them.