I'm cute

The whole kawaii Lolita look is something that I love  so much although it's hardly work never mind really study wear it appeals to my very feminine side.

Rubbing along

Hi and welcome to Sandra and Sara-Anne.

It's sometimes said we never really know what another is really going through and this might be because either it was something they'd never discussed with us or we blissfully assumed that our experiences were the same.
When it comes to what brought us together as (adult) little girls, we may not know of each other pasts, the extent to which the expression of any gender identity through presentation may been of controlled by parents for instance and this may effect their own unique route into it.
I may be fairly open about mine not least cos to me it's no big secret and I feel just talking about these things is of help to others but not everyone does.
If we're together, we do need to take care of each others feelings so no one feels awkward and keep an eye out for those whose sense of fun may come on over as being rather borish or otherwise intimidating.
Some people may have difficult relations with their significant others (usually partners) through either their cross-dressing, gender id issues or just being a little who wants to express it.
Also some of us may have ongoing health issues or disabilities that may not seem obvious to you and equally we may have adapted how we see things to take account of our own limitations that perhaps that we may not always be as sensitive to your needs, perhaps seeing them as less important. It isn't uncommon for someone to say in response to saying how difficult they find their job, effectively "Be grateful for being able to work as I only wish I could" which isn't showing an appreciation for how that situation may be leaving you.
I do feel those of us who don't enjoy the best of health need to ensure we don't lose our empathy with those who while having better health, face other challenges in their lives and respect their needs such as having to up ready for work in the morning. 
It doesn't hurt to try to do better when it comes to rubbing along.

I love doodling

I've always loved doodling, in meetings frequently, all over my exercise books in school or when I'm with other ageplayers as it just distresses me in those sorts of situations totally. 

It's a kind of mental distraction technique I find I need to get through some parts of adult life like have small items in my pocket to "fidgit" with.

At peace with the world

Although I don't generally go much for black fashion as distinct from school gymslips, this is very much as 'me' pose, ribbon in hair, clutching teddy cos I just adore things I can cuddle up to and hug.
Hugs really matter a lot to me as they make me feel safe and wanted.

Sleeping with Miss Kitty

 

I like her outfit a lot but really it's how she has her bedroom with its matching Hello Kitty Duvet and pillow case that grabs my attention as I just love Hello Kitty having some of her bedding and a lot of plushies and dvds.

 

It makes me feel very peace full, calm being the middle girl I am. 

 

You might just have a big plushie of her too in your bedroom.

 

Or maybe a nice set of make up brushes endorsed by her.

If you mess up, you might also see and feel this....

I'm coming over!

Between playing hunt the outdoor cat who is being put off by other neighbouring ones and the showers here I thought I'd do this weeks entry.

How many of us can recall that routine of going on over to a friend or 'play mate' whither or not it was something that emerged from the playground that day or arranged between Mothers?

I sure can! It happened quite a number of times when I was in Juniors during recess where an invite would be issued and in those days before all this instant messaging and cellphones, you'd skip home to tell Mommy the news and you half imagined your friend doing the same as resourceful as ever she increased the food portions for that days evening meal with little warning as back then food was cooked at home on the range even if some was packaged.

Needless to say if your Mommy was anything like mine there would be some fuss around what your were going to wear as you had to create a good  impression, your hair would be washed and styled quickly and although you would thank your friend and his or her Mommy, it was the done thing to write a thank you note afterward. You may also have bought a present if was a more formal organized affair.

I just loved these happenings.

Co-ordinated outfits

I really like the way the bag, purse and hat co-ordinate on this outfit athough I'm not sure I could pull it off personally