Wednesday, July 11, 2018

Putting the emphasis on what it belongs

It's been another hot week struggling to cope with the temperatures and the intense brick dust from nextdoor's building work by the local cowboys but there is one issue I have touched on before here I am revisiting.
In an era where social media is seen as the one point all information and contacting having an old school website devoted to mainly non sexual spanking might seem to be a bonus given some folks negative experiences of sites like Fetlife but there has been an issue a few of us have been talking about for a while which resumed last week.
A website for adults who are spanked and those that do you might think has little need to have anything that has to do with spanking and children especially when talking about that in the forums is an absolute no and where no one under 18 can sign up but two pages on the site clearly breach this.
The main page had a long section on it that after much pressure was removed but this a fellow member pointed out leaves a substantial chunk on the other that uses examples on time outs versus spanking referencing children.
One can follow the arguments but it is simply inappropriate to reference it on a site for adults  and should use not discuss its application using examples with children where they could be replaced by some those of us who as adults, are explaining why we find it more helpful.
Such examples would themselves serve as a more useful guide for those looking into this for being the experiences of actual adults  in dealing with their own challenges while making crystal clear the site is not about in any way shape or form spanking of children leaving such discussions to those to whom this is relevant such as parenting sites.
Thankfully that wording has now gone.
In my opinion making these changes is well overdue although I remain surprised the wording went unchallenged at the time.

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