While sometimes it seems things seem to come in threes after this weekends close encounter with four wheels this weeks theme is a bit different.
After the odd comment, I think the thing to be looked at more is refinding balance and unity in this life after everything in the last few months which of necessity has been talked about here.
One the first is you may see a fair bit of people but the fact you do does not make them friends, that kind of depth shown in inquiring without physically seeing how you are, actually caring for (and not mistaking that with being seen as a carer of) and keeping informed in a open transparent way matters just is not and seems was never part of things.
No, it was a loose agglomeration of aquaintances who may of been friends of each other but that circle didn't include you because they kept in touch by means you didn't have or belong to.
Going forward it seems to me that if I want friends that do what I always expected and expected to do for them one has to look beyond there, create your own and follow where that goes.
It doesn't mean rejection of all previous contact but an acceptance that how things may of appeared were not as they may of seemed and what I may feel I need to sustain me emotionally is best looked for beyond them.
There is life beyond the box if you look for it.
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