Awareness or Up Yours!

Conversations don't always run the way you anticipate.

It may be that for whatever a reason you didn't see you were crossing a firm line with someone  either because the tone was such it was "low voltage" failing to register that "back off" feeling.

It might of been that having done that you still felt you were wronged and could negotiate, mouthing off ignorant that your very words were being heard loud and clear.

I've sometimes been known to mouth off with a distinct lack of awareness of just how disrespectful it was not least with me being very much the junior partner in this situation.

Sometimes you just have to call us back for an an additional spanking to make sure we've really learned our lesson and just who is in charge.

Warm thoughts

 I think I'll start by thanking two people for their comments on last weeks entry which seems to have made an impression.

This isn't the most usual of weeks to be honest  hiding away from the sun as temperatures are set to reach at least 38 degrees C and I believe in some parts even 41 degrees which for some is 104 degrees F which is pretty darn hot.

I had next to no sleep last night the indoor temperatures were more akin to an indoor kiln  which is most unusual.

Obviously keeping cool matters so I was in my short thin nightdress last night and today am in lightweight sports attire today mirroring what is happening in some schools.

There was point where I did do more Goth  short skater type skirts, thigh high stockings forms of presentation and it still tugs at me. Perhaps something like that would still work?

My Beliefs on school uniforms

School Uniform & The Girl.

This is for anyone interested in age regression and the use of school uniform in this lifestyle… This is not for minors or non consenting adults.

This also is for those who may be born or assigned as male who do not wish to transition full time such as cross dressers or others such as feminine boys who might prefer emulating the look but have no desire to be that girl.

Pronoun usage assumes female but of course where appropriate can be switched to male (he/him).

I am a firm believer in getting your little girl in the right mindset, and what more could be better then dressing her in the correct clothes for her age group she is… I think the key clothing item in her wardrobe, should be her school uniform… Personally I believe this shouldn’t be kept for special occasions.,but to be used for every day wear after doing her adult activities or even on days off, as well has for punishment nights and weekends…

Uniform & Rules

Now this is my personal preference so by no means is this the same for ever care giver out there however you can use this has a guideline to build your own uniform around and rules if you are a little or middle on your own…

Uniform.

Skirt……(Jersey, skater, fully pleated)

White blouse…(long sleeve)

Jumper… (long sleeve)

Tie…(The colour is up to you)

Socks… (Ankle and knee)

Underwear… (briefs mini plus high leg, vests, seamless croptop and a T shirt bra)

Footwear… (flats no heels)

Optional extras:

Tights… (60+ opaque tights, wool tights, only from October to April)

Blazer… (The colour is up to you)

Pinafore Dress. (September to April)

Gingham Summer Dress (April to September)

Top: Summer gingham dress, socks and knickers.

Below: Pinafore dress,blouse, tie, socks, underwear and shoes… With a good strap to boot. 

My personal favourite colours are grey , charcoal and navy blue… And green yellow tie or blue and white tie… But these are my favourites, but you could also use them….

So what rules would I have??

My rule are fairly simple:

Hair tied up in a pony tail, plate or pig tails.

No heavy makeup.

No nail polish.

One set of studs per ear.

One ring per finger.

Simply chain pedant.

No thongs, g strings or adult underwear.

I’m a big fan of keeping the girls uniform has current has possible. What do I mean by this? Well if the girl goes out in public she isn’t going to stand out to much so they feel in step with the times and can easily blend into the environment .

I hope you find this helpful when planning or thinking about a uniform.

Moving on

 While sometimes it seems things seem to come in threes after this weekends close  encounter with four wheels this weeks theme is a bit different.

After the odd comment, I think the thing to be looked at more is refinding balance and unity in this life after everything in the last few months which of necessity has been talked about here.

One the first is you may see a fair bit of people but the fact you do does not make them friends, that kind of depth shown in inquiring without physically seeing how you are, actually caring for (and not mistaking that with being seen as a carer of) and keeping informed in a open transparent way matters just is not and seems was never part of things.

No, it was a loose agglomeration of aquaintances who may of been friends of each other but that circle didn't include you because they kept in touch by means you didn't have or belong to.

Going forward it seems to me that if I want friends that do what I always expected and expected to do for them one has to look beyond there, create your own and follow where that goes.

It doesn't mean rejection of all previous contact but an acceptance that how things may of appeared were not as they may of seemed and what I may feel I need to sustain me emotionally is best looked for beyond them.

There is life beyond the box if you look for it.