Challenges

Adults are complex and not necessarily logical species having had to deal with "The Grump" who started at one point going off about not not being cut out to run a home, failing of "seriously thinking about selling up" and later on starts off on a different track.

Really if you're struggling unless you're going to a place you are having meals, laundry and  cleaning provided you'll still have all of that deal with whither you move to a one or two bedroomed flat or another house.

You'd need to sort out EVERYTHING in it ready to move, being prepared to spend a lot of time visiting properties and putting your bids in, sort out bridging loans to move stuff  and so on for a person who has a big railway, audio and ham radio gear on top everyday household stuff.

It wouldn't solve anything and Mom's effects still would need to be cleared and I suspect emotionally speaking really he's spent more time than desirable working on that for near enough two whole days about from dinner break then a good half day fixing a light fitting that needed changing due to water damage in what would of been her room.

That's what's really eating him although he won't admit it: Tired and emotional for dealing with it and *anything* is a trigger.

Round two was more the "need some co-operation" round where I'd be the first to admit I didn't understand his Landfill and Recycled bags and which was the Landfill Bin which lead to some mix ups and leaving a wastebin liner unemptied which he did. 

To hear him talk if he was going to  hospital for a few days, the house would be overrun with unemptied bins needing a extensive clean up and if so I'd have move to a residential home.

That ignores a few things like I would ask for for some guidance from the neighbours if I wasn't sure what was to go where but it would end up in a bin outdoors, If I couldn't push the bin I'd ask for help with that and that really the evidence submitted doesn't back that up.

As for being busy with his room, that's nothing to do with me although I did  apologize for not getting a few things wrong and would clear this one bag once a week that takes a matter of minutes really if that helps.

Just as ever he ignored the tidying I had done.

Still, prepared to improve but as I say much of this is really about other stuff.