Bits that matter have at times been ignored in this blog because other bigger topics have predominated at times and one is the importance of the relationship between any adult with responsibilities and me as the the adult child.
It isn't enough to say "I'm the adult here" you need to explain carefully about what has concerned you about me and my life whither or not it is because I have been unwell and we all know I was earlier this year for instance or it is because you needed to chastise me because of things I said or did that impacted on other people or even just me.
It matters that you reveal your love and care for and about me so I cannot mistake that concern for just you just wanting the upper hand with me, that there really is a serious point to all of this.
It is about words, it is about deeds but above all it is about feelings, feelings you can share and make sure I really get by your cuddles, hugs and other aspects of the physical expression of your love and affection.
Given some of the terrible things that have happened in my life, this really matters.
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