Bitter-sweet

You may feel life's given you a load of lemons, such as ill health, irreversible disabilities, lack and a poor family life. Maybe along the way someones entered your life, adding extra cups of sugar on your whims, thought making your life sweet really was a kind act but they were wrong for the right reasons.
Whatever you have, you still have abilities like everyone else you'd be better of focusing  on and opportunities that are far sweeter for your taking responsibility for instead of letting you be this spoilt, over indulged creature living of other peoples generosity.
It wasn't the sugar you needed to wipe away the bitterness, you needed your ass spanking instead.