Safety and submissiveness

 

Today's entry is a bit different than some from the recent past although going way back in time in other places it was the kind of thing that I was prepared to talk about and that point blog sites were less "prissy" about what could be published.

Submissiveness is something I think most of this blogs readers would be aware of, the extent to which we may be prepared to do something that may not of been at our instigation and to just accept what another may do upon us.

It can come in different guises and I'm not inclined to say how your live should be lived.

For some of us, as Littles we may be happy to hand over a chunk of upper (adult) decisions and responsibilities to a Big because it gives us the mental space to just be our own child pursuing our playfulness to wherever it does knowing we'll be looked after when say it comes to stopping to take any medical treatments or pulled away for spanking if in our playfulness we've got out of hand.

For others this can run into notions of being "made" to dress in certain ways, such as a "maid" (great pun,eh!), sexy bimbohead, being treated in ways that outsiders would see as humiliating (and some people do like it surprisingly enough) or even just being "used" in a sexual way.

Some things in that last set do have some clear risks, one reason why some communities have codes based around advanced consent even if may appear to be "forced" and the use of safe words if what was agreed at the outside is not from a psychological or physical sense "safe" at the time and so on.

Given the amount of interest shown around them clearly whatever our own ideas about what we'd do, they are meeting a need some people have.

The one area I do feel we need to very cautious over are things that involve allowing others direct access to our money as some forms of domination involve financial extortion or the use of personal details and photographs for blackmail

Some might fantasize about it - a common form is that of the deliberately outed "sissy" - but could that person really deal with the in real life consequences such as losing jobs, friends and damage within their families never mind losing their home?

You may enjoy life as a little, some like being in certain respects more of a doll, a plaything that  ultimately that individual buys into but certain elements need really thinking about because the risks are very high and hard to escape.

Acting on your submissiveness is okay but do stay safe.

Getting the balence right

 

I'm slowly catching up after this long super hot period reduced me to a puddle of inactivity as it was so hot I struggled to even concentrate which as we all know was never my strong point.

I mean I could of got a degree in not concentrating and otherwise not paying any attention to anything although the usual way of dealing with that might of been too much for a Grown Up too as everyone seems to had struggled so it's not just an adult little girl thing!

She's showing a look I sometimes do, that of the "When is this gonna stop?"  look as you just carry on until think I've got the point with the sniffles, attempted apologies as your bottom is burning.

Sometimes you just have to go to that point to get us to make the change.

Respecting limits is sensible but you need to keep your senses open to gauge when you got far enough as to underspank can be as bad in its way as to go overboard we just cease to really take anything in.

Summer Melts

 

An overload of cuteness is something I am prone to having a long term addiction to all things Sanriotown for a long time, from tote bags to all manner of things

I quite love sugary sweet pink in tops, short kittenish skirts and accessories so if it was given its fullmost expression then you'd need to wear sunglasses all year round and not just on summer days like these.

I was also into Care Bears, probably cos the message resonated strongly with me liking cartoons a lot.

I mean I seldom watch adult tv these days as little really interests me unless say it's arts or history based with nothing changing much over the years.

The clock has stopped.

Can we have a sports revolution, Miss?

 

We're going through the summer splurge of sports with the Commonwealth Games currently taking place here in the West Midlands and of course we have had the Final of the Women's Uefa championships in which England did actually win.

Sports and girls has a mixed connection as every sooften we have reports saying how girls drop out of sports in their teens with various things such as a preoccupation with hair, not wanting to sweat, body image issues (but there's a massive problem around sexual images sent by girls to boys!) and lack of role models.

Then consider girls (and women's) football which has risen in popularity over the last five years and in which as I recall officially younger next no girl ever got the ball in the school playground which so binary divided it was bloomin' unreal with approved/unapproved activities for boys and girls just on grounds of gender.

That was often compounded by rigid gender division in team games which meant for many boys had to play cricket and even now in a good number of secondary schools football isn't an option even as girls only team sport.

That was picked on by a number of commentators on Monday, will schools see the success and following by teen girls of the game, their involvement in the game outside of school and make that change.

It wasn't so long a go their was a vogue for pushing personal exercise plans rather than the games element in school sports suggesting all girls wanted to do was excercises.

Apart from seeing improvements within the game, I hope school sports departments grasp the nettle and make participation in P.E. and Games more fun for every child with opportunities for all whatever they're interested in.

Awareness or Up Yours!

Conversations don't always run the way you anticipate.

It may be that for whatever a reason you didn't see you were crossing a firm line with someone  either because the tone was such it was "low voltage" failing to register that "back off" feeling.

It might of been that having done that you still felt you were wronged and could negotiate, mouthing off ignorant that your very words were being heard loud and clear.

I've sometimes been known to mouth off with a distinct lack of awareness of just how disrespectful it was not least with me being very much the junior partner in this situation.

Sometimes you just have to call us back for an an additional spanking to make sure we've really learned our lesson and just who is in charge.

Warm thoughts

 I think I'll start by thanking two people for their comments on last weeks entry which seems to have made an impression.

This isn't the most usual of weeks to be honest  hiding away from the sun as temperatures are set to reach at least 38 degrees C and I believe in some parts even 41 degrees which for some is 104 degrees F which is pretty darn hot.

I had next to no sleep last night the indoor temperatures were more akin to an indoor kiln  which is most unusual.

Obviously keeping cool matters so I was in my short thin nightdress last night and today am in lightweight sports attire today mirroring what is happening in some schools.

There was point where I did do more Goth  short skater type skirts, thigh high stockings forms of presentation and it still tugs at me. Perhaps something like that would still work?

My Beliefs on school uniforms

School Uniform & The Girl.

This is for anyone interested in age regression and the use of school uniform in this lifestyle… This is not for minors or non consenting adults.

This also is for those who may be born or assigned as male who do not wish to transition full time such as cross dressers or others such as feminine boys who might prefer emulating the look but have no desire to be that girl.

Pronoun usage assumes female but of course where appropriate can be switched to male (he/him).

I am a firm believer in getting your little girl in the right mindset, and what more could be better then dressing her in the correct clothes for her age group she is… I think the key clothing item in her wardrobe, should be her school uniform… Personally I believe this shouldn’t be kept for special occasions.,but to be used for every day wear after doing her adult activities or even on days off, as well has for punishment nights and weekends…

Uniform & Rules

Now this is my personal preference so by no means is this the same for ever care giver out there however you can use this has a guideline to build your own uniform around and rules if you are a little or middle on your own…

Uniform.

Skirt……(Jersey, skater, fully pleated)

White blouse…(long sleeve)

Jumper… (long sleeve)

Tie…(The colour is up to you)

Socks… (Ankle and knee)

Underwear… (briefs mini plus high leg, vests, seamless croptop and a T shirt bra)

Footwear… (flats no heels)

Optional extras:

Tights… (60+ opaque tights, wool tights, only from October to April)

Blazer… (The colour is up to you)

Pinafore Dress. (September to April)

Gingham Summer Dress (April to September)

Top: Summer gingham dress, socks and knickers.

Below: Pinafore dress,blouse, tie, socks, underwear and shoes… With a good strap to boot. 

My personal favourite colours are grey , charcoal and navy blue… And green yellow tie or blue and white tie… But these are my favourites, but you could also use them….

So what rules would I have??

My rule are fairly simple:

Hair tied up in a pony tail, plate or pig tails.

No heavy makeup.

No nail polish.

One set of studs per ear.

One ring per finger.

Simply chain pedant.

No thongs, g strings or adult underwear.

I’m a big fan of keeping the girls uniform has current has possible. What do I mean by this? Well if the girl goes out in public she isn’t going to stand out to much so they feel in step with the times and can easily blend into the environment .

I hope you find this helpful when planning or thinking about a uniform.