Aproximations

Last week was really rather hectic with sorting out the washing from bring away, storing the case away ready for the next time away and dealing with the many things that didn't get done but we got there.

One thing you've of noticed is some changes of emphasis within what what I'm publishing here as over the years we've gone back and forth around some topics as people and sites have left and new folks come about.

One interesting thing that only by accident I found out was "K" who I know and love in real life who is in a relationship quite openly described hurself as a "sissy" on their social media that has pictures of hur on it although publicly within the group it was never mentioned.

That might of been because of historical (and I also say personally hysterical) antagonism between the LG (Little Girl) community and Sissies to the point some would refuse to share spaces even if we kept things very much around more child-like play, keeping anything remotely sexual well out of things.

When you consider how many may do  "little" and who are in relationships, then plainly people keep the parts apart.

So when I look at that then I can just openly say "I am a sissy" the way I elect to be.

Sometimes it can be classic schoolgirl as it was last weekend, it may be more party frock or may be more satins with lace and bows all with stuffies tossed in.

Girlish ankle socks, traditional knee length socks, white tights or hold up stockings depending what works best or maybe more a mix and match look.

As that gurl, this I'm sure is just how it would play out, in hur outfit, just as ever over a  lap getting hur spanking no doubt when lines were crossed.

That's what I'm more comfortable.

On lifestyle (An essay of sorts)

It's a while since I looked at the statistics of this blog, in part cos I think they can be a little misleading at times, but it appears it's had over 51,000 page views since it started and is one of the prominent alg blogs around.
The person who worked out it also could be described as a slice of alg  life blog got that right because its coverage is broader than just about me being a little/middle it's also about the life and how I see that from it.

For I suspect most of us, this life in its differing aspects such as our child-like interests, sense of dressing more as a little - for me little/middle girl - gender presentation for some and so on comes from within.
Certainly speaking purely personally it's something I've felt for a very long time in my so-called real life even if some individual aspects may of changed over time like my more recent feeling comfortable with the more frillier side of being alg.
It is something that we feel, something that we need perhaps in our lives not that we may not have balance this sometimes with more adult responsibilities like paying the bills and for a good many, needing to work too.
We own that sense of self, working it as best we can to suit our requirements and we're in control of that at all times. In other words we're responsible for our sense of little and where we take it.
This is I feel a bit different than what you may see elsewhere where it's portrayed as being "Forced" although I'd say that's not an accurate description so much as the person doing that is more the one enabling, using psychological suggestions, a sense of wanting to be enabled in the subject as no one can in the everyday sense of the word make you do feel or do something you don't wish.
The person buys into it in other words and I suspect they may not have the confidence to just do it by themselves if that's really them. 
It's a different feeling I think from any sense  of, if you're transgendered, wanting wrongs in the form of gendered presentation to be put aright as being enabled to say attend school in the gender you feel which I can well understand from personal experience.
That's just about you as the child back then, being able to be yourself, the gender you really feel, and to have the childhood involving  play and schooling you deserved and all to often never got although through the miracle of age-play you may well be able to recreate something of it such as at meets or in creating say school based role playing especially if it can be face to face.
All I know is I loved some of these elements at Camp, they made me feel more complete and very happy. Maybe it does for you?

I am and will be...me

The other day I saw this and thought it was wonderful and deserving of a reprint

To me so long as you you don't hurt others you should be able to:-
Dress the way you want
Act the way you feel
Live the way you wish
Do whatever makes you happy
and finally, 
Be whoever you wish to be.

Is that too much to ask for?