Aproximations

Last week was really rather hectic with sorting out the washing from bring away, storing the case away ready for the next time away and dealing with the many things that didn't get done but we got there.

One thing you've of noticed is some changes of emphasis within what what I'm publishing here as over the years we've gone back and forth around some topics as people and sites have left and new folks come about.

One interesting thing that only by accident I found out was "K" who I know and love in real life who is in a relationship quite openly described hurself as a "sissy" on their social media that has pictures of hur on it although publicly within the group it was never mentioned.

That might of been because of historical (and I also say personally hysterical) antagonism between the LG (Little Girl) community and Sissies to the point some would refuse to share spaces even if we kept things very much around more child-like play, keeping anything remotely sexual well out of things.

When you consider how many may do  "little" and who are in relationships, then plainly people keep the parts apart.

So when I look at that then I can just openly say "I am a sissy" the way I elect to be.

Sometimes it can be classic schoolgirl as it was last weekend, it may be more party frock or may be more satins with lace and bows all with stuffies tossed in.

Girlish ankle socks, traditional knee length socks, white tights or hold up stockings depending what works best or maybe more a mix and match look.

As that gurl, this I'm sure is just how it would play out, in hur outfit, just as ever over a  lap getting hur spanking no doubt when lines were crossed.

That's what I'm more comfortable.

Experiments

It is a very windy day with much rain so it will be very much a stay indoors, read comics and stay warm day until it dies down enough to sort out the many moved items and a broken bird bath later on.

At one site people are discussing identity which for many of us tends to be complex because really many of us share multiple ones and within each you may not do or meet every single aspect some put under it.

It has also over the years been a delicate and troubling issue with me at least as much for the prejudices of differing communities toward certain groups from the big girl world of transfemales and transexuals feelings towards any of us who are more around being and dressing more child-like as in "little girl" or within that community of Little Girls towards other groups such as "Baby Cubs", AB and/or DL or "Sissies".

Some refuse to have anything to with you be it in real life or online no matter what you, yourself might do in your own take on that life or around others. 

And we all need to be aware of how our actions may be seen especially when in more public settings but when in reality nothing in it gets between what other groups are doing nor is illegal or immoral.

I will acknowledge I have always had a suppressed more overly girlie side that fits more in with some aspects of "sissy" as much as I can and enjoy other sides such as schoolgirl presentation and in real life recreation than what some "little girls" seem to be comfortable with and yet it's just a look, a cut of a few pieces of material stitched together. 

Dresses in satins often with prints, frilly undergarments possibly frillier than most girls would like but you just adore can I truthfully say I don't have a more sissy side?

Elsewhere I've battled with it, tried arguing against it, and yet it keeps coming back and what is wrong with someone seeing me as "a sissy" - just that individual and what really is my own issue with me?

I think it's time to accept that side of me and to say don't be afraid to call me what I am among many other things a "little sissy" in the same way many accept my needs for sp@nking and they can go together without straying into very much adult content territory.