Thursday, August 14, 2014

Being dressed as a middle


Sometimes I wonder what would really happen if everybody knew I dressed like a little girl.
Would they look at you with two heads, may be refuse to speak to you or otherwise be spoken of in whispers or is it that actually they're ok really with it?
I'm inclined to think most of the time it's a "I'm okay, you're okay" standoff where everybody just holds back on verbalizing how they feel so it's just little game society plays especially after one group of people outed me only to find everyone I knew just wasn't bothered wanting me in roles that involved interacting with others who just may of heard something.
While the experience wasn't good and sure, those people shouldn't of done what did, in one way they did me a favour- they forced my little adult little girl out into the open as they saw how I dressed including pictures.
Today I no longer deny this side of me at all

Thursday, August 7, 2014

What kind of a little are you


Your Result: Princess
Schoolgirl 66%
Pumpkin 34%
Angel 34%
Brat 0%
You are Daddy's little Princess!!!!! Your daddy adores you and spoils you rotten, because you melt him everytime you walk (or crawl) :) into the room!

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Ain't that the truth

That in so many ways is just how  wish others to feel about you as much as you see them as your forever Mommy or Daddy figure

Thursday, July 24, 2014

I am and will be...me

The other day I saw this and thought it was wonderful and deserving of a reprint

To me so long as you you don't hurt others you should be able to:-
Dress the way you want
Act the way you feel
Live the way you wish
Do whatever makes you happy
and finally, 
Be whoever you wish to be.

Is that too much to ask for?

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Holding hands


It may seem old but one of the most comforting things for me is holding hands. I like how you feel directly connected to me, how you're gonna care for me with all that freely given love. It makes me feel loved and critically alive.

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Bonds

There's a couple of posts in mind before I next go off for a couple of days one of which may be a bit more technical but anyway here's the first.
Well, I can remember doing this, carefully wrapping each strand of wool around the circle almost in a trance before making the final turn followed by fastening off and cutting both at Grans and also in school as they were rather into art and crafts. 
Talking with some of you on Tuesday's chat kind of reminded me about these things and some ideas around how we learn about each others personality, interests and needs of which the act of playing together I feel is important be it a word based imagination in chat or face to face where we may play with things as that's where it happens.
Sharing is super important cos it makes what people have go further and it help to build bonds between people cos we share and play together so it's nice to bring something with you when we do get together so we all can do that.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Play and middle me

I wasn't really what you might call a prissy kind of a kid for being as girlish as I was as I liked to run, play with things and wasn't too fussed if I got all muddy cos it would all come off with a cloth if not a hot bath and we had plenty o' them.
The biggest thing was the play, the unfolding adventure and it's that I like to relive today as the Middle with a little side adult girl I am.