They say it's yer birthday!

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It's a sticky situation as I get gets through my chocolate and mommy has to come with a wet cloth to clean me up! I'm sure our resident jam lover will identify with this card I recently had - honest I think somebody just might of got the message now -and somehow it seems appropriate to shares the card here although the cake was shared elsewhere!
To me love is reflected in love so you just do these things and sometimes you feel people think I'm on another planet???
Regards Joanne.

Playwear

I think there's three types of clothes you have as a middle, your school clothes being one which I have  written bits about here already and your more going out formalish stuff that might include say party dresses or best stuff for visiting friends and relatives.
There's the other sort I haven't said much about now which is more the clothes you play in at home or say your garden (if it's secluded) where what are wanting is things that are quick and easy to wash and off you the most freedom of movement for when you are.
For me something akin to loose t shirt, a PE or in this pictures instance a Tennis skirt, ankle socks and canvas pumps is ideal although you could substitute PE shorts or short tails over the t shirt. That to me is comfortable and probably why the first set of girls attire I bought was a PE uniform to play and generally chill out in.

Tie or not to tie

Although I'm not so sure about the skirt as it looks too senior for me I like the blouse and that tie as it isn't too far removed from  the one I had at Junior school which was a  off white and red one that I like to wear.
Maybe something like that but with a skirt more like this might work:

That's more like the junior pleated skirts I'm happier with as they were a part of the me through age play I wish to be back in the headspace of.

When two worlds collide

Sometimes I like to talk about the more lighthearted joyous sides of being LG and their are other occasions when while preserving some delicacy, I sometimes feel like talking about more serious matters.  
Today is more like the latter I guess and it's about how two different ways of seeing how people present and why can clash.
I don't have a big issue with how people present in what we call age regression - the point when you go back into the mindset of being younger and  for us as littles it's to be a child and to act in a child-like mindset  being drawn from your own experiences some of which people may have differing views.
What I have an issue with is some not all in the Sissy community and some in Age Play both of which are in part connected to bdsm and kink who you may encounter in shared spaces where we might play or perhaps be on a site together doing everyday child-like and totally 'safe for work' regression activities who start to bring in sexual or more kink activities to the regressed state especially when it disregards the boundaries of others.
They may even try to drag you into it!
For most of us as in actual childhood that sexual side is and was never a part of it and to the extent as an adult you are sexual, then that belongs in your own bedroom or proper bdsm places.

Typically sissies tend to love more frilly presentations  but as I say being one is fine.
I'm more around uniforms and school role playing than frills although I may sometimes done frills and can't say if encouraged to I wouldn't go the whole nine yards.
Some people in age regression may mix in the kinds of punishment that were part of their own childhoods  or that they may of been curious of such as spanking but generally this happens away from 'common spaces' being just between you and whoever is spanking you. 
I'll be quite honest and say spanking is in age regression for me for what I'd of been back then but your age regression is yours and if you don't wish to have it in there there is no need to and nobody can make you.

Conseqencies

This kind of conversation at school lunch is so relatable you know.
One girl cos it was girls I hung out with, would hatch a master plan involving deception of Adult Authority figures in our lives such as Teachers or parents in really quite glowing terms about the ease it could be done we all should be in on it.
For our part our minds and our bottoms recalled the spankings we'd had for previous possibly lesser infractions in vivid technocolor so we'd look at each other and say 'meh', 'that can't really work out, Jodi'
That is the beauty of a spanking: You recall the feeling so strongly you never want to go back so it deters you from inappropriate behaviour without getting into really lengthy explanations into why you shouldn't.
You feel the Zolt flash through and that's it.

Regressed replacements VI

You gave me this as a present at Christmas

 

You have me cradle it in my arms as if it were a baby reinforcing my status through this project as Child to be mentored and it's all on your terms.

Tiny dolly support workers

One thing I have always like and still enjoy is rag dolls of which I have a good number that live on my shelves that I use whenever I am feeling very anxious or otherwise stressed, holding, stroking or 'playing' with them both at home and at work where they do understand needs like this that I have in things such as meetings.
They help me stay calm and de-stress in such situations so in way they're little 'support workers' in my life.
It's a part of who I am.